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House manager or estate manager: which does your home need?

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A household manager with a tablet briefs a butler and a housekeeper at the foot of a marble staircaseA household manager with a tablet briefs a butler and a housekeeper at the foot of a marble staircase

The two titles are often used as if they meant the same thing. They do not. The difference is scope, and scope decides who you should hire.

The titles house manager and estate manager are used loosely, and sometimes for the same job. They are not the same role. The difference has little to do with seniority or the grandeur of the address. It is a question of scope: what the person is responsible for, and where the edge of the job sits.

A house manager runs one household.

A house manager, also called a household manager, is responsible for a single residence and the people who work in it. That means leading the staff and their rotas, holding the standard of the house, managing suppliers and contractors, keeping the household budget, and planning maintenance before it becomes repair. The role is present and practical. A good house manager knows the house room by room, and knows the principal’s preferences without being told twice.

An estate manager runs the whole holding.

An estate manager’s responsibility extends past the front door. It may take in grounds and outbuildings, staff cottages, vehicles, security arrangements, building projects and more than one property, sometimes in more than one country. The work is more managerial: larger budgets, formal reporting to the principal or the family office, and oversight of the people who run each house. Where there are several residences, the house managers often report to the estate manager.

The answer lies in scope, not title.

A few plain questions settle most cases. How many properties are there, and how many are staffed all year? How large is the team, and who leads it day to day? Is there land, or building work in progress? Does the role report to the principal or to a family office? How much of the week is service, and how much is administration?

A single residence with a team of its own, whether a London townhouse or a villa in Dubai, usually needs a house manager. Several residences, or a country estate with grounds and projects, usually need an estate manager, often with a house manager in each property.

A title will not repair an unclear brief.

The mistakes run in both directions. An estate manager hired into a role that is really the hands-on leadership of one house will be underused, and is unlikely to stay. A house manager asked to absorb the work of an estate, without the authority or the support, will be stretched until the standard slips. Write down the responsibilities first. The title follows from them.

What both roles share.

Whichever the house needs, the qualities are the same: judgement, discretion, the ability to lead people, and a respect for systems. Inventories, schedules and household manuals are what allow a standard to hold when someone is away. In our household manager recruitment, which covers both roles, every candidate is met in person and every reference is spoken, because leadership is difficult to read from a CV.

If you are not yet sure which role your home needs, the staff finder offers a starting point, not a diagnosis. Or tell us about the household, and we will say which role we would hire for.

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